What Not To Do When Dating A Sugar Daddy
There are certain things that you have to consider when you are dating a sugar daddy that are a little bit different to how you can act in a conventional relationship. Often, you can enjoy the time you spend with you sugar daddy in the same way that you would spend time with a boyfriend but there are some other things that you should watch out for. Being aware of these things and avoiding them where possible will help you get the most out of the dates with your sugar daddy.
1.Do not be late.
There is slightly more pressure on you to keep to time than in a usual relationship. A sugar daddy is essentially giving you all the perks that he does in return for spending time with you. It isn’t fair for you to keep him waiting or to cut short the time you spend together. A mutually beneficial arrangement is more business like than a regular relationship so you shouldn’t treat it as casually as a regular relationship.
2.Do not cancel dates at short notice or continually postpone them.
The reasons are similar to the reasons you shouldn’t be late but this will have even worse effects on your arrangement. Your sugar daddy is a busy man with lots of other time commitments. If you are flake about meeting up, he will get tired of being stood up very quickly. Some sugar daddies might not even give you a second chance if you pull out of meeting up without good reason or notice. It’s about respect and successful men do not like being messed around.
3.Do not let your SD waste your time either.
The first two points also apply the other way around. If your sugar daddy messes you around, cancels dates without good reasons or good notice or if he keeps postponing your dates, then you deserve better. Your time is also valuable and you need to find a sugar daddy who respects that. You shouldn’t have to change your plans to fit around rescheduled dates. If he keeps postponing a first date, he probably isn’t serious about the arrangement. If you are serious about finding a sugar daddy, make sure he is really going to meet you regularly.
4.When you are together, don’t be distracted by your phone or have your mind on other things.
Most arrangements work best when they are separate to the rest of your life. When you are spending time with your sugar daddy, it should be quality time. Listen to what he is saying, take an interest in the conversation and the things that he likes. Enjoy being in his world and doing the nice things he pays for you to do with him. If neither of you are enjoying being together, the arrangement is pointless.
5.Don’t let the arrangement take over your life.
The first four points wont be possible if you feel like you are having to devote too much of your time to be with your sugar daddy. Agree with him on an amount of dates per week or amount of nights that you will spend together. It must be an amount of time that you can comfortably fit into your existing life. If you are always tired from working and spending the rest of your time with him, you won’t have as much fun as you would if you can get enough rest, see your friends and then see your sugar daddy. Quality time is way more important than the quantity of time you spend with your sugar daddy.
6.Quality time will also depend on how you act about money.
Don’t always go for the most expensive option. Choose what you like instead of automatically looking for the most extravagant options. You’ll both enjoy it more. Respect is mutual and trying to rinse a man’s wallet does not make a good impression on him or give him much reason to want to spend time with you. He will know if you are only after his money.
7.Do not lead them on romantically.
If your sugar daddy wants things to become more romantic or if you think he is starting to feel more seriously about you, be honest. Things can get very messy if you encourage a successful man to treat you like a real girlfriend and then break his heart later. Keep it fun, with no strings attached. Part of the appeal of an arrangement is that you both know where you stand with each other, so nobody gets hurt.
Dating a sugar daddy should be a fun way to experience a different side of life than you could afford to see on your own. It should be fun for both of you and you should both look forward to the dates you spend together. He will not have fun or want to keep seeing you if he feels like you are taking advantage of his money or messing him around.